Thursday, June 22, 2006
To forgive is to give hatred only a little space in your heart...(I)
Wanted to draw today but guess that I'll keep it to the later part of the week....Just got
an idea after talking to Meeshell on MSN today.... :P
Not too sure if one gets more emotional when one has fallen ill but I feel kinda sad when
talking to some korean friends on MSN today and it kinda reminds me of the decision that I
had made regarding my exchange to Yonsei University...But probably will talk more about it
during the next entry... (which is pretty relevant to what I had talked to Meeshell about)
But anyway, this entry is meant to explain the story behind my last post 'To forgive is to
give hatred only a little space in your heart...'
Guess I may have told this story lotsa times to a lot of people before or maybe you would
have heard it before if you have watched 'A moment to remember'....
Have some time to spare listening to some long story by some boring guy? Then you might
wanna read on, if not, perhaps it might be better to have an early rest first...Lotsa people
have fallen sick during this period, so to my friends who are reading my blog, if you belong
to the earlier group, I hope that you will have a good nite rest and sleep early instead...
To those people who are bored and are still well and kicking (muhahaha...):
It happened that there is this guy who hates his mom because when he was young, his mother
gave him away to be taken care of by a old carpenter. When the young boy was an understudy
of this old carpenter, he suffered a lot of hardships and for that reason, he hated his
mother a lot...
Time have passed and the young man had grown up, married and gotten a architect degree...
But he still hates his mom for what she has done... Apparently this guy's mom has fallen
sick at that point of time and the guy's wife told her husband this story...
"The heart of every person is like a house. And in this house, there are many rooms, big
ones, small ones, luxurious types and cosy types. And in this house of ours, we can allocate
it to our different loves ones.
Sometimes because we love the people around us more than ourselves, we will have to stand
outside the house looking at the people inside,while having ourselves drenched in the rain,
just because we wanted to keep the memories of our loved ones inside our heart.
However, in this house, there is also someone else staying inside and his name is Hatred.
Because Hatred is linked with the memories of some of our loves one, we can't kick him out
of the house, because by kicking him will mean that we will totally erase all the memories
of our loved ones from our heart.
But if we do not control it, Hatred will try to be in control by occupying the biggest room
all by itself and our heart will be all filled with hatred...
What we can do instead, is to control it and lock it up inside a small and dark room so that
it will not have any control over us, while keeping the rest of our memories intact."
Yup, that's basically a small part of the story in the show, if you wanna find out the
ending, you can either buy the vcd or you can borrow from me (haha...although I've lent it
to someone else already, so might have to wait for a while)...
Ya, but personally I find it quite meaningful, hence wanted to share it with some of you...
It is indeed difficult to forgive, especially when someone has done you many wrongs but to
think about it, wouldn't it be more painful to both yourself and the people around you if
you cling on to this hatred? Hope that this may serves as an encouragement to people who
have been struggling to forgive some people in their lives...
Anyway, to you if you are reading this blog:
I'm sorry if my response/attitude have been awkward for you but I would just like to say
that I hope you can give me some more time to get back to normal... But I'm thankful for a
friend like you and for your smses and hope that things have been going along well for you
too :)
All rites...getting late...time to rest soon for yet another day of work....(Really looking
forward to taiwan and diving..haiz...)
Aja,Aja,AJA!!!
It has been a while since I have a proper rest at home...guess this mc has really given me a
valid excuse to slack around at home doing nothing except to sleep,eat and to watch tv...
valid excuse to slack around at home doing nothing except to sleep,eat and to watch tv...
Wanted to draw today but guess that I'll keep it to the later part of the week....Just got
an idea after talking to Meeshell on MSN today.... :P
Not too sure if one gets more emotional when one has fallen ill but I feel kinda sad when
talking to some korean friends on MSN today and it kinda reminds me of the decision that I
had made regarding my exchange to Yonsei University...But probably will talk more about it
during the next entry... (which is pretty relevant to what I had talked to Meeshell about)
But anyway, this entry is meant to explain the story behind my last post 'To forgive is to
give hatred only a little space in your heart...'
Guess I may have told this story lotsa times to a lot of people before or maybe you would
have heard it before if you have watched 'A moment to remember'....
Have some time to spare listening to some long story by some boring guy? Then you might
wanna read on, if not, perhaps it might be better to have an early rest first...Lotsa people
have fallen sick during this period, so to my friends who are reading my blog, if you belong
to the earlier group, I hope that you will have a good nite rest and sleep early instead...
To those people who are bored and are still well and kicking (muhahaha...):
It happened that there is this guy who hates his mom because when he was young, his mother
gave him away to be taken care of by a old carpenter. When the young boy was an understudy
of this old carpenter, he suffered a lot of hardships and for that reason, he hated his
mother a lot...
Time have passed and the young man had grown up, married and gotten a architect degree...
But he still hates his mom for what she has done... Apparently this guy's mom has fallen
sick at that point of time and the guy's wife told her husband this story...
"The heart of every person is like a house. And in this house, there are many rooms, big
ones, small ones, luxurious types and cosy types. And in this house of ours, we can allocate
it to our different loves ones.
Sometimes because we love the people around us more than ourselves, we will have to stand
outside the house looking at the people inside,while having ourselves drenched in the rain,
just because we wanted to keep the memories of our loved ones inside our heart.
However, in this house, there is also someone else staying inside and his name is Hatred.
Because Hatred is linked with the memories of some of our loves one, we can't kick him out
of the house, because by kicking him will mean that we will totally erase all the memories
of our loved ones from our heart.
But if we do not control it, Hatred will try to be in control by occupying the biggest room
all by itself and our heart will be all filled with hatred...
What we can do instead, is to control it and lock it up inside a small and dark room so that
it will not have any control over us, while keeping the rest of our memories intact."
Yup, that's basically a small part of the story in the show, if you wanna find out the
ending, you can either buy the vcd or you can borrow from me (haha...although I've lent it
to someone else already, so might have to wait for a while)...
Ya, but personally I find it quite meaningful, hence wanted to share it with some of you...
It is indeed difficult to forgive, especially when someone has done you many wrongs but to
think about it, wouldn't it be more painful to both yourself and the people around you if
you cling on to this hatred? Hope that this may serves as an encouragement to people who
have been struggling to forgive some people in their lives...
Anyway, to you if you are reading this blog:
I'm sorry if my response/attitude have been awkward for you but I would just like to say
that I hope you can give me some more time to get back to normal... But I'm thankful for a
friend like you and for your smses and hope that things have been going along well for you
too :)
All rites...getting late...time to rest soon for yet another day of work....(Really looking
forward to taiwan and diving..haiz...)
Aja,Aja,AJA!!!
내 사랑 ---- My Love
Nae-Sarang, directly translated as My Love................I believe that in the heart of every person, there is a 'Love' of their life, it could be their family, their friends, that special 'someone', hobbies and even some particular habit that you grow to live without...I hope that through this blog, I can let my friends to have a glimpse of this part of my life, though may be short, but I hope that I will grow to love and remember, in this little room in my heart...
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