Haizzz…… used to like the weather before a thunderstorm, so cooling and so calm…. But today is just too depressing…not sure what is the matter, maybe its just because 我中的毒已太深了。。。
Been told by a number of brothers that they want to join the ‘Nice Guys Finish Last' Club…. Guess a lot of people do feel that they fit those descriptions written below (I do feel so initially too)… Hence perhaps the real chairperson of the club may want to step out and start recruiting their members if there is really such club on Earth…
Anyway, still can’t believe that I actually spent my precious time drawing instead of doing my report in the middle of week 10… Perhaps listening to this song by Jacky Wu has poisoned me further…
是不是这样的夜晚你才会这样的想起我
结束忙碌的一天换回熟悉的寂寞
懒懒的躺在沙发上像母亲温暖臂弯
转到昨天的频道让声音驱走寂静
总是同样的剧情同样的对白同样的空白
是不是这样的夜晚你才会这样的想起我
这样的夜晚适合在电话里
只有几句小心的彼此问候
系着两端的猜测
是这样的夜晚想起我 oh
是不是这样的夜晚你才会这样的想起我
这样的夜晚适合在电话里
虽然几句小心的彼此问候
现在牵未来的手
是这样的日子需要改变
“当我在这样的夜晚想起你时，
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Harrowwww Peoplezzz!!!! Sorry that I haven been blogging for the past month....haiz...school work and mid-terms have been piling up man....AND Youwen, if you are reading this post, STOP MUGGING in your room or STOP PLAYING COMPUTER GAMES...Get a LIFE!!!
Haha....anyway, happened to find this article or should i say this "club" while surfing the net, don't really know who wrote it but would just like to quote the whole passage below and I also drew a picture for the club's registration publicity...haha....thought that the writer wrote down quite a bit of the essences of 'nice guys', not sure if how many of you have read it before but just read it and give your opinions (both guys and gals welcomed!)
Quoted from unknown source:
"This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what a**holes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores.
This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/sexy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern.This is in honor of the guys who respect a girl in every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style.This is for the guys who escort their drunk,bewildered female friends back from parties and never take advantage once they are at her door, for the guys who accompany girls to bars as buffers against the rest of the creepy male population, for the guys who know a girl is fishing for compliments but give them out anyway, for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow don't end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you.This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn't worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best killing spree you'd ever orchestrated in GTA3 (read: Grand Theft Auto 3) to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world. And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didn't have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing serious between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: "oh, but we were just friends!" And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyway. Because you're nice like that.The nice guys don't often get credit where credit is due. And perhaps more disturbing, the nice guys don't seem to get laid as often as they should. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can't. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative b**ches. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as "ohh, he's too nice to date" or "he would be a good boyfriend but he's not for me" or "he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn't possibly ask him out!" or the most frustrating of all: "NO, it would ruin our friendship". Yet, they continue to lament the lack of dateable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can't figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I'm going to sleep with this complete a** now!).
But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn't last forever. There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single.So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know you're sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, insane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming. "
Haha... yupz....so anyone interested to form a club in school??? ANyway, for all the SMUggers, enjoy your week 8 break and take care!!!